ok so i went back at it for an hour or so and heres what i know now...
+12V (done)
Ground (done)
G- from ecu (done)
G- to ecu (done)
G1 from ecu (INCORRECT)
G1 to ecu (INCORRECT)
NE from ecu (INCORRECT)
NE to ecu (INCORRECT)
G2 from ecu (missing from 5sfe wiring diagram)
G2 to ecu (missing from 5sfe wiring diagram)
i tried starting her with it all patched in... NOPE
i tried attaching the G1 and G2 wires... NOPE
i tried with just the G- 12+ and ground.....STARTED (so those are all good)
i tried with the G2 NE G- 12+ and ground... nope
so i guess that tells me that i have the power and groudn working fine and the G- must just be a monitered line because i saw no change whiel adjusting the timing while it ran
i am starting to get angry at it and i am not sure it's going to work...
BUT WHAT A GREAT PUZZLE SO FAR